From Contention to Contentment: The journey of one bitter young woman toward becoming a gracious and mature woman of God, this side of glory.
December 30, 2011
December 29, 2011
December 27, 2011
The Rod
"He who withholds his rod hates his son,
But he who loves him disciplines him diligently."
Prov 13:24
"Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child;
The rod of discipline will remove it far from him."
Prov 22:15
"Do not hold back discipline from the child,
Although you strike him with the rod, he will not die.
You shall strike him with the rod
And rescue his soul from Sheol."
Prov 23:13-14
"The rod and reproof give wisdom,
But a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother."
Prov 29:15
But he who loves him disciplines him diligently."
Prov 13:24
"Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child;
The rod of discipline will remove it far from him."
Prov 22:15
"Do not hold back discipline from the child,
Although you strike him with the rod, he will not die.
You shall strike him with the rod
And rescue his soul from Sheol."
Prov 23:13-14
"The rod and reproof give wisdom,
But a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother."
Prov 29:15
We receive a lot of criticism for our use of the rod. But Scripture has made it clear that this is the instrument used to "rescue his soul from Sheol," to impart wisdom and to drive foolishness far from our children. We do not use the rod with anger and malice, but out of love. The more consistent I am to use it, the more infrequent my anger interferes with our discipline sessions.
When Jeramy answered phones for the police department, he would often get calls from the same parents wanting the police to come and discipline their misbehaving children. One child in particular was around 8 or 10 years old! What will happen when that child becomes older? Those parents will live with the shame of a lawless, disrespectful, insubordinate adult child who may end up dead or in prison. What a disservice Christian parents show their children when they don't discipline as the Scripture mandates, as often as needed. I love my children. I spank my children.
When Jeramy answered phones for the police department, he would often get calls from the same parents wanting the police to come and discipline their misbehaving children. One child in particular was around 8 or 10 years old! What will happen when that child becomes older? Those parents will live with the shame of a lawless, disrespectful, insubordinate adult child who may end up dead or in prison. What a disservice Christian parents show their children when they don't discipline as the Scripture mandates, as often as needed. I love my children. I spank my children.
December 23, 2011
Eight-Point Deer!
December 22, 2011
December 21, 2011
Ultrasound in My Pocket
Last week I went in for an ultrasound to check on the baby after a little spotting over the weekend. There were only 2 days of spotting and I haven't had any since then. The baby was moving a lot and gave me a lot of relief from worry. I was 13 weeks at the time. I'm 14 weeks now and I've delayed on posting this. I can tell that by the shape of the baby's head, he or she will look more like Jeramy, like Lily does.
December 19, 2011
Why We Don't Buy Toys . . .
They did this for 45 minutes!
All the toys they have are given by grandparents and aunts. We can count on one finger the number of toys we've purchased for them. Often I go through their toy baskets and pick out those things that don't work anymore and what they're not playing with. They either get chucked or donated. This helps eliminate clutter too.